Grandpa Stauffer

My beloved Grandpa Stauffer passed away yesterday morning, quite unexpectedly.  If you think death at his age (84 years old) can't be a complete surprise, then you didn't know him.  My grandpa was active, lively, joyful, humorous, and always singing.  He was constant, faithful, respected by so many and absolutely adored by his family.  And he will be missed, oh so greatly.  It is difficult to believe that he is no longer here.  Less than two weeks ago he was enjoying Thanksgiving surrounded by friends & family...last week he and my grandma made their annual trek to Arizona for the winter...on Sunday he was watching the Lions play football.  Now he's gone, and it just doesn't seem real to those of us he left behind.  Though his death is incredibly sad from an earthly perspective, for my grandpa it is a wonderful homecoming.  He has finally met the Savior he served faithfully for so long.  I rejoice for his sake while my heart breaks for my grandma, my mom, and the rest of our family.  As the tears run down my face, I find myself smiling as I picture him being greeted by his daughter and grandson.  We have lost a dad and grandpa, but my Aunt Sue and cousin Bradley have gained him back.  What a sweet reunion that must have been!

It is tragically ironic that the only Thanksgiving in my entire life that I did not spend with my mom’s side of the family turned out to be his last.  I wish I could have seen him once more, hugged him one last time.  I’m so thankful I got to spend some time with him & my grandma this summer, so thankful that he got to meet Evan.  Unfortunately Evan will not get to know him, but I’ll be sure to tell him all about his Great Grandpa Stauffer.  My grandpa left quite a legacy – one of strong faith, unconditional love, and lasting joy - and I am so very grateful that I was blessed with 26 years with this wonderful man as my grandfather.  

I love you, grandpa!  Thank you for the Godly example you set and the quiet strength with which you led our family.  I loved listening to you sing, and the way you made me feel so special, so loved, will forever stay with me.  I will always miss you, but I am rejoicing that you are with Jesus now.  I'll be seeing you again!